Why Are Less Qualified People Getting Ahead While You’re Overlooked?

I once watched a woman in a meeting put forward a strong, well-thought-out idea. She spoke clearly, made her case, and backed it up with logic.

The reaction? A few polite nods. No real discussion. The conversation moved on.

Ten minutes later, a male colleague built on what she said—rewording it slightly but keeping the core idea the same.

This time, the room paid attention. People engaged, asked questions, and suddenly the idea was worth exploring.

She glanced around, clearly frustrated. I could see what she was thinking: I literally just said that.

And this wasn’t a one-off. I’ve seen this dynamic play out over and over again.

👉 A woman brings insight to the table—she’s met with polite dismissal.

👉 A man reframes the same idea—it’s taken seriously.

Why? Because authority isn’t just about what you say. It’s about how you’re perceived.

And while the system may be flawed, there are strategies to shift how people react to you—so that when you speak, people listen.

That’s exactly what this week’s blog is about: 3 unspoken rules every woman must follow to be taken seriously at work.

The Power Within Programme is Coming!

For years, I’ve seen brilliant women hold back, hesitate, and get passed over—not because they aren’t good enough, but because they weren’t taught how to own their authority.

🔥 That’s why I created The Power Within—a transformational programme designed to help women step into leadership with confidence, presence, and influence.

💡 It’s happening in April—and I’ll be releasing more details soon. In the meantime check out the landing page.

If you’ve ever felt underestimated, unheard, or unseen, this is for you.

Hit reply and let me know—what’s the #1 challenge you face in gaining respect at work? 

Your answer might shape the final programme. 👀

“Tired of Being Ignored? 3 Unspoken Rules Every Woman Must Follow to Be Taken Seriously”

If you’ve ever watched less qualified people get ahead while you’re still waiting to be noticed, this is for you.

💡 This week’s blog reveals:

✅ The subtle communication habits that make women sound less authoritative (and how to fix them)

✅ Why setting boundaries makes people respect you more—not less 

✅ The fastest way to shift how people perceive you—before you even speak

📖 Read it here

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All the best,

Steve