Why the Right Questions Matter More Than the Right Answers

If there’s one thing I’ve learned over the years, it’s this: transformation rarely comes from having the right answers. It comes from asking the right questions.

And not the easy ones.

The real shifts in life happen when you stop asking, “How do I fix this?” and start asking, “What’s been shaping my life that I didn’t consciously choose?”

That single question unlocks a different kind of clarity. It cuts through the noise. It helps you stop blaming, stop bypassing, and start taking real responsibility for what’s showing up in your life right now. Not in a self-critical way, but in a way that actually leads somewhere.

Because what we resist, persists. Memories, old patterns, emotional weight, they often linger not because they’re unsolvable, but because they’re being resisted. Buried. Avoided. And the longer we push them aside, the more they tend to show up, again and again, just in different guises.

But when you stop resisting, even briefly, and face what’s there with a bit of awareness and structure, things start to move. And once movement begins, choice becomes possible.

Awareness is the key. Can you step back from what it is you’ve been resisting and just observe it? You might find the following meditation helpful in resolving problems that you have up until now been resisting.

It’s not about rehashing every past wound. It’s about recognising what’s been driving things, and choosing something better, right here, right now.

News

Coming Soon: The Abundant Self Workbook
This is almost ready to go live on the site. Just a few more technical bits to finalise and it’ll be available to download. It’s a focused, practical toolkit designed to shift patterns at the identity level and move your life forward.

Also Coming: Reiki for Relationships Download
Keep an eye out—this guide will be landing on the site in the next few days too.

No Blog This Week
All my energy is going into getting the Abundant Self Workbook and website fully up to speed. The blog will be back soon!

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All the best,

Steve